"Situation"

Some people like to talk about my so called "situation" referring to it as "misfortunate" or "irresponsible" and to be honest, I could not care any less. I am not perfect and I will not try to be. I have made mistakes as those have that are speaking for my "situation". I have done no more sin than the next person. I just got caught. More to me, I got blessed. The blessing of life is living within me and if you don't like it, you don't have to talk about it nor do you have to be around it.

Most of those who are taking it into their own hands to judge are those who haven't come to me to ask how it is being handled. The way it is being handled is in a mature, responsible way for a 19 year old girl and a 22 year old guy. No, we are not trying to get married. No, we are not together....but the one thing that I can say yes to is that we BOTH love this baby. Preparation has been in place for MONTHS. and if you want to take it on yourself to call my "situation" "misfortunate" be my guest, but if you want to know how amazing this experience is for my new little family and want to be supportive, then you can come to me and I will welcome you with an open heart.

I have a guy in my life not running from our new life. We are taking things day by day. Talking about possibilities for our family and more than that our CHILD. I don't see anything "misfortnuate" about that at all. God has blessed our little family with something that will be a life changing experience but neither of us would change it if we had to. This is the best thing that could have happened in our lives. So I give thanks to God for this miracle baby.